Your Personalised Bids for Connection Results Are Here
Your score card is now ready. Based on your results we have some suggestions to help you improve your communication and connection
What Your Score Means
Reticent
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If you scored 6 or greater, you're bidding for connection in a way that tends to keep your needs hidden and unknown. You have a tendency to be unclear in stating what you need from this person. This can be a problem in the relationship because the other person may feel he or she has to be a mind reader to understand what you need.
A score lower than 6 means that you're more direct. This is better for your relationship, because you have the ability to state clearly what you need from this person.
Forceful
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6 or greater, you may be expressing so much anger that you're pushing the other person away. This could be the result of past frustration with this relationship, or it could be an enduring characteristic of your personality. Either way, this can be a problem in the relationship because your bids may sound more like criticism or righteous indignation.
A score lower than 6 means you are not overly forceful in expressing what you need from this person. It is better for your relationship because it's easier for the other person to hear and understand what you need.
Trust
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If you scored 4 or more, you may need to do more to win that person's trust. One of the best ways to do this is to concentrate on responding to the other person's bids, rather than trying to get the other person to respond to you.
If you scored less than 4, you probably have a high level of trust in this relationship.
