The Relationship Paradigm Crisis Programme 

Reconnect with your partner, by using this proven approach tested with hundreds of couples

The Relationship Paradigm 

Reconnect with your partner, by using this proven approach tested with hundreds of couples

Would you like to:

--> understand why this happened?
--> deal with the hurt and anger and get to stability?
--> create a new and better relationship where the trust is being rebuilt and love is growing?

Imagine if you could…

Understand the past and let go of the hurt

Be enjoying time together, building a new future

Feel nurtured and deeply cared for

Well, I’ve got some good news for you:

You’re just seconds away from all the one to one support, exercises and guidance you need to deal with the crisis and help you create a loving and fulfilling relationship.

Introducing The Relationship Paradigm Crisis Programme...

Urgent 1-2-1 support and an online programme for couples whose Relationship has suffered from a betrayal and who want to see if they can get through this, reconnect and rekindle the love they first had.

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Introducing The Relationship Paradigm... an online programme for couples who have drifted apart and who want to reconnect and rekindle the love they first had.

The Relationship Paradigm shows the elements that Neil Wilkie knows are fundamental to a great relationship between two people.♡

These elements are interlocked: if they grow together they are much stronger, and if one is absent or weak then the relationship is less resilient.

The foundation of all of these is Trust.

If trust is complete, then it is like a clear blue sky. If trust is beginning to be doubted, then it is as if big grey storm clouds appear and they impact on all the other elements. Without trust the whole model becomes unstable and dissipates.

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The Relationship Paradigm Crisis Programme will help you… 

♡ Deal with the Betrayal
♡ Identify where your relationship needs attention
♡ Reconnect with your partner
♡ Experience the joy of your love once again
♡ Help you openly and joyfully communicate with each other

It will be your Success Path to falling in love again, and staying in love!
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The Relationship Paradigm will help you… 

♡ Identify where your relationship needs attention
♡ Reconnect with your partner
♡ Experience the joy of your love once again
♡ Help you openly and joyfully communicate with each other

It will be your Success Path to falling in love again, and staying in love!

Hundreds of Couples have Experienced the Life Changing Work of Neil Wilkie

“We were in crisis after 25 years together. Our lives were miserable with never ending arguments. We were both on the brink of ending the relationship until the programme rescued us and gave us a clear route to a much better and more harmonious life.”

Programme Participant

“ We were on the brink of splitting up after my affair was discovered. Not only was our relationship rescued but I also shed the misery that I had been carrying around since childhood. Our lives are now so much better than I could ever have believed.”

Programme Participant

Hello, I’m Neil Wilkie

I’m your guide inside The Relationship Paradigm.

When I was young no-one taught me how to have a good relationship.  It wasn’t on the curriculum at school or University. My parents were married for over 50 years and they stayed together but I’m not sure they were really happy with each other.

So how did I learn?  Initially it was by trial and error; lots and lots of errors.  I assumed that once you fell in love, that was it, you would stay in love for ever.  Well that’s what the films made me believe!

Real life is very different, it is messy, it is a bumpy road and it changes a lot. 

My first marriage ended after 3 years when my young wife had affairs with her bosses at work, and she changed jobs a lot!  My second marriage ended after 22 years when it became blindingly obvious that we were headed in totally different directions, with me having given up my business career to become a Psychotherapist. I realised our values were no longer congruent and we parted amicably.  My third marriage started wonderfully and then my wife was diagnosed with an incurable Brain Tumour and died three years later.

I am now married to Gwen, my soul mate and am very happy.  I am fully aware of what makes relationships flow and what makes them fail.  It takes a big investment of time and emotional energy. It requires each of us to be open, vulnerable and committed to it.  A great relationship is hard work, but it is the most fulfilling thing that we can have.

So, apart from trial and error; how did I learn?

I spent years studying what made the difference between success and failure, what made the difference between happiness and misery.  I learned through a huge variety of Psychotherapy training how to dig deep with clients to understand what had made them how they are, what they really wanted, and how to create positive change to get them there.

I had experienced several doses of traditional relationship counselling and realised that there could be a better way of achieving great outcomes, quickly.  I learned from the best and 12 years ago I created a very different model. Having had great results with hundreds of couples I now want to make my model available to a much wider world.

My mission is to impact and improve 10 million relationships around the world in this decade.  I hope that yours will be one of these.

I work in my private practice in Lymington, UK. Single sessions with us cost over £1200 each, are in high demand, and booked out months in advance. I wanted to create a way for couples around the world to be able to access the life changing resources of The Relationship Paradigm 

I created The Relationship Paradigm after seeing common patterns and themes working with couples. This membership gives you and your partner the ongoing support you need, with me as your guide, to work together to solve your issues once and for all.  You can regain your connection without the fighting or feeling like you are strangers.

"The face-to-face work I do with couples is immensely rewarding, and there have been many tears of happiness in witnessing the actual moment when a couple reconnect and fall in love again.

It’s not just the couple who benefit, the impact on their children, friends, families and work relationships is incalculable"

" We were at a crossroads in our marriage. You taught us how to be open and honest with each other and reasons why we had ended up there.  We now have a really strong marriage and are looking forward to a much better future"

Programme Participant

“My wife was about to leave me after she discovered my affair. We were both so unhappy. I hadn’t seen my wife naked in the last five years and intimacy was non-existent. Now things are wonderful."

Programme Participant

“You saved our lives together. From the first distraught phone conversation and in the following sessions you have helped us rebuild our shattered marriage and learn a great deal about ourselves and each other."

Programme Participant

When you join The Relationship Paradigm Crisis Programme, you get...

  • Three, 2 hour online one to ones with you and your partner to help you through the crisis

  • 24/7 Email and phone support to help you through the crisis

  • Lifetime access to our proven and highly successful Online Relationship Paradigm Programme to help you fall back in love again

  • Fortnightly webinars and trainings, run over 2 months. 8 x sessions in total

  • Recorded video lessons to help you learn about the key relationship paradigm elements

  • Carefully curated exercises to do on your own and with your partner 

  • Email Support throughout to ensure you are making progress and have your questions answered

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