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I sometimes get ignored when I really need attention

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My partner often doesn't notice me

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My partner usually doesn't know what I am feeling

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I try, but fail, to get the support I need in this relationship

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I think that my partner should know what I need without me having to ask

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I often have difficulty getting a meaningful conversation going with my partner

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I have trouble getting emotionally close to my partner

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If my partner can't tell what I need, I typically withdraw

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I often find my partner too busy to be emotionally available to me

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It's hard for my partner to tell what I need or want from them

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My partner often takes the focus off me and puts it onto him or herself

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I often feel excluded by my partner

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My needs are being neglected in this relationship

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I get upset when I don’t get the attention I need from my partner

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When I feel let down by my partner I let him or her know it in no uncertain terms

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I can take just so much in being ignored by my partner, and then I get angry

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I believe in strongly and assertively asking for what I need from my partner

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I often find myself becoming irritable with my partner

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I get so frustrated because I have to demand what I need from my partner

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I get angry because I don’t get the emotional support I need from my partner

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I often feel irritated that my partner isn’t on my side

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I have to let my partner know that he or she isn’t being a team player

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I just can't seem to get close to my partner

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I have trouble getting my partner to listen to me

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I have trouble getting my partner to talk to me

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I have trouble getting my partner to trust me

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I find it difficult to get my partner to open up to me

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My partner won't share his or her true feelings with me

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I sometimes get ignored when I really need attention

My partner often doesn't notice me

My partner usually doesn't know what I am feeling

I try, but fail, to get the support I need in this relationship

I think that my partner should know what I need without me having to ask

I often have difficulty getting a meaningful conversation going with my partner

I have trouble getting emotionally close to my partner

If my partner can't tell what I need, I typically withdraw

I often find my partner too busy to be emotionally available to me

It's hard for my partner to tell what I need or want from them

My partner often takes the focus off me and puts it onto him or herself

I often feel excluded by my partner

My needs are being neglected in this relationship

I get upset when I don’t get the attention I need from my partner

When I feel let down by my partner I let him or her know it in no uncertain terms

I can take just so much in being ignored by my partner, and then I get angry

I believe in strongly and assertively asking for what I need from my partner

I often find myself becoming irritable with my partner

I get so frustrated because I have to demand what I need from my partner

I get angry because I don’t get the emotional support I need from my partner

I often feel irritated that my partner isn’t on my side

I have to let my partner know that he or she isn’t being a team player

I just can't seem to get close to my partner

I have trouble getting my partner to listen to me

I have trouble getting my partner to talk to me

I have trouble getting my partner to trust me

I find it difficult to get my partner to open up to me

My partner won't share his or her true feelings with me

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