Have you and your partner drifted apart? And you're not sure why?

Lost that 'lovin feeling'
You'd love for the magic to return, the way it used to be.

Filled with loneliness
Feeling disconnected and wish for things to be better?

Frustrated & Angry
Is there more shouting than talking, and the fun's all dried up?


I’m Neil,
I understand the pain; I have been there myself, several times.
Since then I have learned how to create and sustain great relationships and now I am a Psychotherapist, Author, Relationship Expert and creator of The Relationship Paradigm.
The Relationship Paradigm is an extraordinary approach to help you fall in love again, and stay in love.
I believe everyone deserves a loving and fulfilling relationship with another person -- let me help guide you on that journey.




Find out how The Relationship Paradigm will help guide you on the Success Path to a loving and fulfilling relationship.
TELL ME MOREHow We Help You

The Programme
Get supported through our life changing relationship programme which you can do from the comfort of your own home

Books
Books designed to help you find each other again. Written as stories from different perspectives, they are designed to educate, inspire and entertain you.

Private Counselling
We work intensively and exclusively with the two of you spread over a few months. You will work with Neil, the Relationship Paradigm founder and Maria, his colleague.


Our Mission
Our mission is to impact and improve 10 million relationships around the world in this decade.
We believe one of the greatest gifts anyone can have is a loving and fulfilling relationship with another person.


“Our lives are so much better for working with you. It has made such a significant difference to us. It has meant that we have stayed together and kept our family rather than splitting up after we had been through some rough times.”
Programme Participant

“We have learned a HUGE amount during our time with you – the ability to talk and actually connect with one another is something that was vitally missing from our relationship and not something that any previous counselling has ever managed to help us with.”
Programme Participant

“Before we would have screamed and shouted at each other; now we are talking like grown ups. We are now in a really positive place and I know we’ll never go back to how things were in the past.”