What do you need to know to help you make this really important decision?
♡ Your path back to
love starts here ♡
The Relationship Paradigm
♡ Reconnect with your partner, by using this proven approach tested with hundreds of couples
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I start this journey?
You have already taken an important step by accessing our website.
The next steps might be to:
Calibrate your relationship using our Relationship Scorecard.
Having an open and honest conversation with your partner about your current relationship and what you would like to have happen.
If your partner is unwilling to start, why not try the programme yourself. This may create the relationship ripple that will get them engaged?
Look through our programmes and see which one suits you best.
Schedule a Zoom or phone call to discuss more.
Why should I do this?
I believe that one of the greatest gifts in life is a loving and fulfilling relationship. Does your relationship give you all you want?
Bad relationships cause unhappiness and misery, not just for the couple but, potentially, for generations to come.
You deserve to have a great relationship and your pathway to falling back in love starts here.
I haven't spoken to my partner about this yet
This is a journey for both of you. Starting the conversation is hugely important and can be life changing for both of you.
If it is easier for you, test out the programme yourself first and, when you can see the benefits, engage your parter in it too.
Find a time and space to talk and just ask 'and how are you feeling about our relationship right now' They may be reluctant to talk so wait and create a space for them to answer.
Let them know that you would like to work on making the relationship better.
Show them this website and allow them to explore the possibilities.
My partner is reluctant
In a relationship there is no reality, only perceptions. Both perceptions can be very different but equally right.
Your partner may think that things are 'OK' or be reluctant to be vulnerable and admit that the relationship could be better.
It is very normal for both of you to be going on this journey at different speeds. If your partner thinks the relationship is perfect and you don't, then there is real dissonance that needs to be dealt with..
We will support both of you in making this really important decision.
If your partner is reluctant, don't force it. Try the programme yourself and see if they notice the benefits first.
How much does this cost?
There are four different programmes. The prices and details for each are on the programmes pages.
Reset, to help couples who have drifted apart.
Recover, for couples needing urgent help where there has been a crisis or betrayal.
Retune, for couples who want an even better relationship.
The Communication Spotlight to give you a soft start into The Relationship Paradigm.
The price is the same for a couple as an individual. You can start yourself and then add your partner, free, at a later date.
Who is this for?
The programme is for all couples in a long term relationship who want to have a great relationship.
We have programmes for:
Resetting a relationship where you have drifted apart.
Recovering from a betrayal or affair that has rocked the foundations of your relationship.
Retuning a relationship that is good but could be even better.
Is this only for couples?
Yes. Our experience is that working with only one person means that we only hear one perspective and their partner is not involved in the solution. We need to work with both of you to discover what the real issues are and create sustainable change.
I (or my partner) am not sure if I want the relationship to continue. Is this right for me?
Yes; this programme will give you both clarity on what you really want and what the best decision is. If you do decide to split up it will help you do this in an amicable way as well as helping you both learn the lessons that will needed for either of you in future relationships.
Also, if you have children and do decide to split, you will both need to have a relationship, as joint parents, in the future.
Is this really going to help me fall in love again and stay in love?
The sole purpose of me creating this programme is to help you fall in love again and stay in love. So the short answer is YES.
A better answer is that if that is what you and your partner want and are prepared to invest time and energy into your relationship, then we can definitely help.
I’ve designed the Relationship Paradigm especially for people like you. People who are ready to break free from the disconnection, sadness, loneliness and feeling of being unloved and finally get the ongoing support you need to have a loving and fulfilling relationship.
We are a Same Sex Couple; can you help?
Absolutely. The principles of The Relationship Paradigm work regardless of sexual preferences.
We are part of a Minority Community; can you help?
Of course, we work with clients from any ethnic or religious background.
Our mission is to impact and improve 10 million relationships around the world in this decade.
Can I talk to you personally?
This is an important decision for both of you and I want to make sure that working with us will be the right decision.
The Recover programme is available to meet your needs.
The Retune retreat runs once a year, at the moment.
The Communication Spotlight is always open.
Do the Programme costs cover both of us?
Yes. The fee for the Programmes is for the two of you. We want you to work together on this. Some of the exercises will be done together and some separately. You will have separate access so that you can work at your own pace.
Do you offer refunds?
If the programme is not working for you; email us and we will do our best to put things right.
During the first 7 days, if you have worked through the materials and not got sufficient benefit, then contact us and we will refund the unused proportion.