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Reset - Finding A New Course After Drifting Apart
The relationship story in this book is shared through the alternating perspectives of John and Rachel who have drifted apart over many years and are on the brink of splitting up.
Read how they find their pathway back to love.
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I wrote this book because I believe one of the greatest gifts anyone can have is a loving, fulfilling and sustainable relationship with another person. Helping couples find each other again, and fall in love again, is the greatest joy.
But how do we get to that when things have gone bad, or are lifeless, or there is no closeness anymore, and it seems the only choice is to split? I also wondered how to write a book that wasn’t just another ‘Read this book, do that, and it’ll all be OK’, because the shelves are weighed down with those.
It was then that I decided to write this book as a parable; to make it accessible to everyone; to help readers identify with Rachel and John’s story as it unfolds; and be able to relate to the characters and their very different ‘voices’.
I want people to see that each of us has our own perspective, and that we feel and experience the same event so differently.
I Have Three Hopes For You When You Read This Book:
- You enjoy reading it and get some value from it.
- It helps you in your relationship, and you are able to talk openly about it with your partner.
- You can really listen to each other as you explore what could be.
Praise for Reset :
“Neil has produced that rarest of books. One that shares great ideas about how to improve our relationships without falling into clichéd stereotypes or preaching. He uses the example of a couple whose relationship has fallen on difficult times. We have all been there. It is a brilliant book that educates, inspires and entertains.”
David Thomas: Sunday Times #1 bestselling author
“Every now and again a new book comes along which really does add something new to our understanding of relationships.
This highly accessible and readable book draws on Neil Wilkie’s experience of working with hundreds of couples. Thankfully it is not telling us to ‘do’ anything but rather to reflect on our own relationships. I spent half the time reading and the other half asking myself challenging questions. “
Jeff Grout: Author, Business Speaker, Consultant & Coach
“This is a wonderful book and a stunning idea. The stories from different perspectives is just so compelling. I felt such compassion for John and Rachel. Using a story to convey such a powerful message is brilliant because you can emotionally relate to the characters while reflecting on one’s own situation. This is a book for every couple who has become jaded with life, love and passion.”
Nikki Owen: Best Selling Author and International Speaker on Charisma
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Recover - Rebuilding trust after the shock of betrayal
What happens when your partner has an affair and betrays you? How do you cope with the shock, hurt and anger? How does your partner cope with your responses. Can you rebuild trust and the relationship. Do you want to?
Read the story of how Andy and Susan deal with the crisis and find their pathway back to love.
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Step inside the world of Andy and Susan’s relationship; busy with work, stressed by parenthood and with little spare time for each other. Understand what was behind the betrayal and how it impacts them.
Recover is an emotionally engaging parable sharing the everyday exchanges between Andy and Susan in their unfolding story. You are given a rare opportunity to hear alternate perspectives of the same events, to relate to what they are going through, and to identify with their battle to get back to each other.
Woven from over ten years of working with couples, Neil Wilkie uses this powerful story to share The Relationship Paradigm, his unique approach to working with couples who have drifted apart.
He guides Andy and Susan through the key elements of what they need to do to get back on track; sharing his wisdom, ideas, and strategies for anyone reading the book to find each other and fall in love again. Neil Wilkie is a qualified psychotherapist and expert in relationships. He believes one of the greatest gifts anyone can have is a loving, fulfilling and mutually supportive relationship with another person. Recover is the second in the series of The Relationship Paradigm books which presents his unique model for relationships